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The Weight of Leadership as a Man: The First Born Son

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Being the head of the house isn’t just about providing; it’s about balancing responsibilities, managing relationships, and making tough decisions that affect the whole family. For many men, particularly firstborn sons, these roles can feel like a never-ending battle. They wear many hats—protector, provider, leader, and now, in many cases, a husband—and the pressure of it all can sometimes feel overwhelming. From the day he’s born, the firstborn son is often expected to step up, and as he matures into adulthood, the weight of this responsibility intensifies. The Dual Role of Being a Sibling and a Leader As the firstborn, he assumes the role of the ‘big brother’ early on. For some, it’s a title they cherish, but it’s also a role that demands something from them that others may not fully understand. With younger siblings, the expectation can be high. He’s not just a sibling; he’s also an unofficial parent, a role model, and the person his younger brothers and sisters look up to. The relat...
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The Little Red Shoe of Confidence: A Working Mum, Career Woman, Entrepreneur, and Wife’s Secret Weapon

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Let’s talk about something that doesn’t get enough credit—the little red shoe of confidence. It’s not a literal shoe, mind you (though I wouldn’t mind a pair myself), but more of a metaphor. Picture it: a tiny, bold thing that symbolizes the strength and audacity it takes to juggle all the roles we play as working mums, career women, entrepreneurs, and wives. It’s that little boost that helps you stand tall, keep pushing, and wear your confidence like a crown—even when the world is asking you to shrink. As someone who has to balance all these roles, I can tell you that this little red shoe has been a game-changer. The Working Mum: The Red Shoe of Resilience When you're a working mum, you often feel like a superhero—and let’s face it, that comes with some serious moments of feeling like you’re failing. The school runs, the morning chaos, the endless requests for snacks that sound like you’ve been feeding an army… And that’s just before you even step foot into the office! But there’s...
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Umbrellas, Sugar, and Daydreams

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So, there I was—rolling solo in some elite lounge/club. No, not because I’m all independent or anything, but because I’m trying to treat myself. I’ve been under pressure lately, dealing with the usual life drama, and my friend threw in a little complimentary dinner to lift my spirits. Yeah, I know what you're thinking: New friends, please! But for real, when someone says, “It’s on me,” you don’t ask questions. You take it and run! Now, mimi huyoooo, as soon as I sat down, the waiter came with this flashy menu. It wasn’t even a menu at first glance—it looked like a passport that could take me straight to Dubai if I was lucky. You know those ones you need to wash your hands before you touch? Yeah, that’s the one. The kind that makes you second guess if you should really be sitting there, especially when the prices on it could probably buy me a small car, or at least a decent second-hand one. But hey, I wasn’t paying, so I opened it like I owned the joint. My elite restaurant etiquet...
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SCHEDULES FOR TODDLERS

Hi lovelies, Been a while since I posted, been super tied up with Nad not allowing me to do anything in the house.... she crushed my laptop so had to get it fixed.. This post today is quite tricky I may say. Not everyone believes in Scheduling their Little ones.. we try at times but fail miserably, especially the working Mums/Dads. May be because they feel like they have no time for it. Well, am a working mum and it has been hard. When Nad turned 2 I told myself that I will home school  and schedule her daily routine,I did a couple of research and had it all planned and figured out-  I thought. I think and believe that routine is about how you help your tot to grow in body, mind and spirit. It allows you to provide them with almost everything they need during these early days/years through daily living. Before they are even taken to school I/we feel like it is important for them to learn how to express themselves, how to relate with others in school, generosity, ta...
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NAIROBI HALF LIFE - My Take

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I have been quite skeptical about watching Kenyan movies or programs in general. Not that I hate them or anything but I never used to feel the umph that you get when you watch a trailer for an American produced movie or program. It's only recently that I started and thanks to Catherine Kamau 'Celina'  and Showmax (By the way if you have not subscribed to Showmax you are losing out. 250/- Bob only for 3 months... Trust me I do my series in a jav on my way home every single day. Greatest discovery after cold Hawaiian pizza and ice cold Fanta.. don't judge me and no they did not pay me for a mention...I mean who am I ... Mo'ghel). So I found myself watching Nairobi Half Life.. (I know..if you have already watched it and you are reading this you are probably wondering from which planet am I from... relax.. Kenyan art industry bug has just caught up with me...)  OMG!! It was not what I was expecting.. it has a mix of tears,joy, shockers, disgust,laughter,reality...
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